Facebook, Google, IPO Regret

On May 18, 2012, Facebook will be a public company trading with a ticker symbol FB. Mark Zuckerberg will be a very rich man. I’m still kicking myself for missing out on My Missed Millionaire Opportunity. Today’s hype for Facebook is at astronomical levels. We haven’t seen this since August 19, 2004 when an upstart search engine company named Google went IPO. Did I participate? Of course! Well, not exactly.

At the time, I loved using Yahoo. But just for fun, I decided to get in on the action and join the bandwagon. I signed up for a bidder ID for Google’s IPO auction. You know that phrase “All I have to show for it is this stupid t-shirt”? For me, replace t-shirt with e-mail.

Please be advised that on August 18, 2004 at 4:00 p.m. (Eastern DaylightTime) the Securities and Exchange Commission declared the registrationstatement pertaining to shares of Google Class A common stock effective,and Google and the underwriters closed the auction. YOU MAY ACCESS THE CURRENT PROSPECTUS BY CLICKING https://www.ipo.google.com/data/prospectus.html We are sending this notice to everyone who obtained a bidder ID,regardless of whether you have submitted a bid to purchase shares ofGoogle’s Class A common stock in the offering. You may also get asimilar notice from your brokerage firm. If you have submitted a bid, you should access the current prospectusand carefully reconsider your bid(s). Bids may be accepted by theunderwriters at any time after 5:00 p.m. (Eastern Daylight Time) todayby sending you a notice of acceptance. You may withdraw your bid(s) bycontacting your brokerage firm at any time until the notice ofacceptance is sent to you. Please note that submitting a bid does notguarantee that you will be allocated shares in the offering, if it iscompleted. YOU SHOULD BE AWARE THAT THIS MAY BE THE LAST COMMUNICATIONTHAT YOU RECEIVE FROM US BEFORE YOUR BID MAY BE ACCEPTED. Please do not reply to this email. If you have questions regarding thisprocess, please contact your brokerage firm.

Final Thoughts

Almost eight years later, I regret not buying some Google at $85. As of today’s close of $623, that’s a 733% gain. I’m slowly letting go and I suggest you do the same if you’re like me. Fast forward to present day. I looked into getting some FB at the IPO price. However, Fidelity and Ameritrade have account restrictions ($500,000 and $250,000) or trade restrictions (36 trades/year and 30 trades/3 months). Looks like I have to fend for myself in the open market if I want to join the party. Regardless of what happens tomorrow, we all should control ourselves, not get caught up in the hype, and don’t fall victim to IPO regret.

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Buck

After having a great time at the OC Pregnancy and Beyond Event, I continued the fun by attending the Pregnancy Awareness Month Launch Event at the Skirball Center. Once again, I was swarmed by mommies, babies, and strollers. The water was fine and I jumped right on in.

I’m The Daddy

Being a new daddy myself, I naturally gravitated to the daddyscrubs booth. “Why is it all about the moms and the baby?” My thought exactly! I would never debate who is more important to the equation, but it’s nice to see a company that caters to the other half. They have tons of cool gifts for dad ranging from shirts, hats, and scrubs. Can anyone say Father’s Day?

Expert Panels

For a change of pace I dropped on two expert panels. Ken Cook, Alejandro Junger, and Dr. Soram Khalsa had interesting takes and humorous anecdotes about our environment. Although having a baby absorbs all our energy, they made me realize how we can’t turn a blind eye to environmental issues because they affect each and everyone one of us, especially our new little ones.

Catherine McCord and Dr. Alan Greene shared feeding tips for kids. Catherine’s ace up her sleeve was to make feeding a game so eating/feeding would be a fun experience. Dr. Greene advised to introduce green vegetables with meals so kids get used to the color scheme. If their meals in the future are missing their greens, they would actually want to eat them. We are creatures of habit and kids too like their routines restored. Intersting tidbit from the doc, do you know which green vegetable is the most unpopular? Peas! Who would have thought? I actually like peas, but that’s another story. Finally, Dr. Greene was generous enough to give away autographed copies of his new book. He was quite engaging as a speaker as he oozed excitement and expertise while putting the care into children’s health so I’m sure his book will be a page turner!

Star Power

Lisa Loeb graced us with some songs, showed off her baby bump, and showcased her children merchandise and CD’s. The crowd exploded when she sang “Stay”. Gotta love the 90′s! I missed Ricki Lake who was part of the morning expert panel, but I did catch a glimpse of Ali Landry. She was signing autographs and taking pictures with fans. She sauntered by and is taller and prettier in real life. She was promoting her kids clothing line Belle Parish.

Final Thoughts

Last, but not least the Skirball Center hosted a great event. They were pushing their children’s wing, Noah’s Ark. Looks like fun and when Baby Buck grows up, we’ll make sure to visit. With events like these, it makes being a parent easier and more fun. There is always positive energy and a wonderful sense of community between guests, vendors, and speakers alike. Can’t wait till next year!

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Buck

Pregnancy Awareness LA Event 2012

Daddy Scrubs

Catherine McCord

Dr. Alan Greene

Lisa Loeb

Ali Landry

Skirball Cultural Center

OC Pregnancy and Beyond 2012

It was a sunny Saturday afternoon and I headed down to the South Coast Collection. The parking lot was packed and I was lucky to find a space. What was all the commotion about? I felt a little out of place as the courtyard was crawling with hundreds of women. Would a newly minted daddy blogger be welcomed at the 2012 OC Pregnancy and Beyond Event?

Although I was heavily outmanned and outgunned, I didn’t feel out of place at all. How could you feel out of place when everyone was happily buzzing from booth to booth with their bundles of joy? It was a little cramped with hundreds of visitors and vendors. Navigating through with a stroller was challenging, but I survived. There were a handful of doulas, photographers, and a car seat safety booth. I was intrigued by The Parent Tree who described themselves as the Yelp for parents. I was also impressed with clean bee baby, an eco friendly cleaning service for car seats and strollers. They were even featured in Entrepreneur magazine. Finally, since I used the Knot to prepare for my wedding, it was nice to see a familiar face in TheBump.com as I entered parenthood.

Final Thoughts

As I am getting used to being a First Time Father, I initially felt out of place at an event that celebrated motherhood. But like I said, how can you not soak in the positive vibe from all the beaming parents and kids? Also, I know pregnancy, birth, and motherhood are more associated with females, but last I checked fathers are equally important partners. It takes two to tango right? So to all you dads out there, don’t forget to celebrate your pregnancy, birth, and fatherhood. Last, but not least, to all you moms out there, Happy Mother’s Day!

OC Pregnancy and Beyond 2012

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Buck

My Mid-Life Crisis Moment

A few weekends ago, I attended my wife’s girlfriend’s wedding. It was a nice intimate gathering and I was very happy for her. However, after a heart warming slideshow, a delicious filet mignon dinner, and some yummy wedding cake, I got an unexpected surprise. I came face to face with my mid life crisis moment.

The official program ended and they opened the floor for dancing. The bride grabbed some of her girlfriends, let loose, and ripped up the dance floor. Some of her younger cousins with their significant others jumped into the fray. I looked over to my wife and asked if she wanted in. She was still battle weary from her over 20 hour labor, she politely declined. I wasn’t thinking clearly as our baby would be without supervision. As I sat there watching the dance floor buzzing with energy. I felt life was passing me by. Years earlier, my friends and I would be the ones cutting up the rug. Now we were two weary parents with a ball and chain in tow who couldn’t even get to the dance floor even if we wanted to. How did I pull myself from the brink?

Breathe

I took a long breath, calmed my mind, and slowly pushed the negative anxiety out of my mind.

Think Positive

I looked on the bright side and enjoyed watching the people on the dance floor having such an amazing time. I looked at the blushing bride and wished her a happy new life and recalled my wedding day.

Recognize the Problem

I quickly sifted through my mind and figured the root of the anxiety was my loss of a choice. It’s not like I hit the clubs on the weekends, but if I wanted to, I felt I could no longer choose that option. It was a combination of losing some freedom and getting old.

Cut the Drama and Embrace the New

My mind was working overtime. “18 years with the new baby. Kiss your old life good bye. You’re no spring chicken because you’re an old fogey!” I forced these thoughts out of my mind and glanced at my wife and our new bundle of joy. This is not a prison sentence. It is a new phase of life. You’re a daddy, enjoy it!

Final Thoughts

Having a baby, surviving on 4 hours of broken sleep, combined with endless hours of diaper duties shook me to the core. I then realized what I was going through was natural. I now embrace the challenge of taking care of my expanding family while also taking this as a huge opportunity to improve myself. My family depends on it. Finally, if I really wanted to go dancing, can’t I just hire a babysitter?

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Buck

I’ve always been an owner of Japanese cars so I never had the pleasure of owning a Mercedes Benz. But after accompanying my wife to the Anaheim Hills Mercedes Benz Customer Appreciation Day, I now understand the cachet of owning a Benz.

While my wife’s car was going through a thorough inspection, we enjoyed a mouth watering lunch from Blake’s Place BBQ and cooled off with ice cream from Ben and Jerry’s. We relaxed in their amazing showroom while watching cars get inspected and serviced. A few hours later a very courtesous service agent went over what needed to be done to my wife’s car and also offered up a loaner in case she needed a car while it was being serviced. Like I said, I don’t own a Mercedes, but after being treated like a VIP, I will have to think twice when shopping for my next car.

Final Thoughts

This is how you win new customers. Treat them like VIP’s. One could apply this mindset while at work or even working on your blog. Treat your customers or readers like they are the most important people around. They will have no choice, but to be a new fan. Finally, I may be biased, but if a company has a motto like the one I snapped below, how can I not consider them?

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Describe the last time excellent customer service swayed you on a purchase.

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Buck

Mega Millions Dilemma

Since I didn’t win the historic 600 million dollar jackpot, I thought about the bright side and looked at Mega Millions: What Do I Really Win. Although I work with a great team and camaraderie is at an all time high, I have a dilemma on my hands. The team has decided we would win a jackpot no matter what the cost. A weekly pool would be collected so we could all take part in the Mega Millions drawing every week. Before it was fun because I had a choice. Now I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I feel like I am obligated to participate in the weekly donation. On the flip side, if I decide to not participate, I’m going to look like the bad team player and on the off chance my team does win the jackpot, I will have to live with the fact that I missed out.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

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Buck

I’m a big fan of Jason Segel, but when you handcuff him with a more serious than usual comedy script, he is just a shadow of his hilarious, fun loving self. What is up with this new trend of producing comedies that look at the ugly under belly of relationships? Friend With Kids anyone? Don’t we go to the movies to escape? I guess you could take a break from your life by watching train wrecks, but that’s what reality tv is for. I always looked at Emily Blunt as a dramatic actress, but she did have some charming moments. Sadly, she suffers the same fate as her co-star as they both twist and turn through their challenging five-year engagement. Chris Pratt and Alison Brie steal the show as Segel’s best friend and Blunt’s sister. But if I could do it over again, I would pass on this relationship roller coaster.

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Buck

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Say No To Yes Men Michael Jordan

One of my favorite NBA players of all time is Michael Jordan. Sadly his basketball skill, genius, and will to win have not translated well to the business side of things. His Charlotte Bobcats made history by completing the worst season ever. Some speculate he is surrounded by yes men who don’t challenge His Airness. I hate conflict and disagreements and through the years I have had my share. But seeing MJ struggle so mightily with basketball operations, I have a better appreciation for conflict, opposing views, and constructive criticism. He dominated on the court, but it’s obvious to see that there are more players involved in running a NBA franchise.

Michael if you are reading this, please clean house this off season and surround yourself with basketball people who are strong enough to stand up to you. For everyone else, if you want more success in whatever you do, how is your team and support system? Are you surrounded by yes men? If you are, you too need to clean house and align yourself with intelligent, hardworking people who are also strong enough to check and balance you. You may not help a franchise win a NBA championship, but you will take one step closer to success.

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Buck

For the first time in awhile, I’m on the fence. Usually I’m pretty clear cut whether I like a movie or not. This time, I’m stuck in neutral. It’s nice to see Zac Efron stretch his acting wings and move away from his teen idol beginnings. He does a pretty nice job here. Taylor Shilling and Jay R. Ferguson turn in strong performances and you can never go wrong with Blythe Danner.

On the flip side, how many romances can Nicholas Sparks churn out? Notebook, A Walk to Remember, Dear John, and the list goes on and on. I guess it is all about supply and demand. If readers and moviegoers continue to show up, then wouldn’t you keep producing them if you were him? I can’t really get too upset at him because I would probably do the same. Actually it is amazing to see how many different scenarios and ways he can tell the timeless tale of love. But I find myself questioning how things unfold. “Just tell her! What are you doing? There’s no way this could happen.” With all this internal chatter, perhaps it was a good movie. Like I said earlier, very on the fence. The bottom line, it was a decent movie, but my testosterone begs to differ.

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Buck

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After a long four and a half months, I made it atop the Money Pros Index Fund Challenge. Due to a particularly bad Friday, my stay at the top was short lived. My main points remain the same. It is a bittersweet moment because I only partially invested in my entries and didn’t fully take advantage of the 30% gain. Who knows what will happen from now to the end of the year? What I do know are some takeaways that will make me a better investor and help me better deal with life challenges along the way. For more information, visit MoneyPros Index.

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Buck