I must confess back in the day I was a fan of 90210, who wasn’t? I wasn’t big on Team Dylan or Team Brandon but who wasn’t on Team Steve Sanders? I am not a celebrity stalker who constantly watches TMZ and reads the tabloids, but when I found out Ian Ziering was going to be on the 2013 Pregnancy Awareness Month (PAM) celebrity daddy panel, I thought it would be cool to say hi and take a picture with him. Like I mentioned before, it was an entertaining, insightful, and heart warming panel discussion. As expected, when the talk was over, some of the attendees stayed behind to speak with the panelists.
I had two agendas. One I mentioned above and the second, more importantly, was to say hi to Buck Inspire supporter Robert “Daddy” Nickell. Robert also had a line going so it was a two-man race. I was in between both of them but quickly prioritized and jumped into Robert’s line. Perhaps I also subconsciously chose the path of least resistance because Robert had been a guest on my podcast and I’ve interacted with him a few times in the past. After Robert and I exchanged pleasantries and caught up, I had a few moments to work on my second goal.
Ian Ziering was also wrapping up and before I knew it he bolted for the exit. I hesitated for a moment and slowly chased after him. My inner dialogue went a little like this. What are you doing? Are you a teenage girl? Why don’t you chase after Robert Pattinson and Taylor Lautner to while you’re at it?
That’s when I stopped my pursuit and composed myself. What did I learn from this?
When I was in between lines and oscillating on my next move, other people stepped in and lined up in front of me. When an opportunity presents itself, if you hesitate, your competition and your peers will get in front of you. Over the years, whenever I did hesitate, a less than ideal outcome happened. Most of the time, nothing happens and I’m left wondering what just happened here?
Analysis paralysis reared its ugly head. How do I sound cool? Do you want him to think you’re a weirdo? Am I being silly? Don’t embarrass yourself fanboy! In the end, I did nothing. If an opportunity pops up and you stew too long, your self doubt and your pessimistic side could get the best of you and immobilize you.
Don’t Be Too Polite
If you want something, go get it. If not, other people who do will take your share or your spot in line. Most of the time, things don’t fall into your lap. You have to work and earn it. There really are no free lunches and silver spoons.
A favorite of line of mine is Oh you’ll see him next time. Oh really? Justifying your non action won’t deliver the goods. In this case with the success of Sharknado, and a possible sequel in the works Ian Ziering will be even more scarce. Good going Buck!
I’m not saying to plunge impulsively into every opportunity that comes your way. That would be foolish and you will only be successful if you are very lucky. What I am saying is don’t hesitate, overthink, be too polite, and make excuses. If you do, the opportunities that come your way will slip through your fingers. Just look at me me and Ian Ziering.
Special thanks to these blog carnivals for including me.
Carnival of MoneyPros hosted by Master the Art of Saving
Yakezie Carnival hosted by This That & The MBA
Carnival of Wealth hosted by Control Your Cash
Carnival of Personal Finance hosted by According To Athena
Financial Carnival for Young Adults hosted by Finance for Young Adults